A Mature Women Dating Guide To Writing A Great Profile

OK...the time has come. You have joined an online dating service or two, hopefully you are a member of Mature Dating Help? If not you can join here Mature Women Dating.

Now you must write that all-important profile... the one that will attract attention and reel in the man of your dreams... but where to start? Maybe writing isn't even something you think you do all that well. Even so, as an articulate mature women you can do this.

The first thing is that you should be absolutely honest about yourself. You are looking for that man who will like...maybe someday love...YOU....THE REAL YOU! Not a fake version. Examine past relationships and list the things that you liked and the things you did not like.

If he smoked and you hated it, you won't like it any better the next time. If you love dogs and will always want to own one or more, say that you are an animal lover and want indoor pets. Someone who hates dogs or has an allergic reaction to them is definatly not the guy for you.

Accent the things that make you unique as a mature women. If you play the piano well, you really want Mr. Right to be able to appreciate it. If you like to run in marathons (not for me that one but each to their own), a couch potato will not really be a good match. If you love art, you really don't want a man who thinks Picasso is an ice cream flavor. The idea is to find someone who has at least a few similar interests as yourself, something you have in common but not a complete clone. We like a bit of variety after all.

Describe the things that are vital in your life. If volunteering is the one thing that makes you feel useful and worthwhile, you want someone who would, at the very least, support you if not join you in your volunteer projects. When you get beyond superficial things, you will attract men who share your values.

If you are really serious you could invest in your online profile by hiring a professional photographer for your first online picture. These days with digital photography it really is not that expensive but can make you stand out a mile from the competition. This is so important. The picture is the FIRST thing men see. The second thing is that they read what you have written about yourself.

Don't post your entire life story on your profile, be specific and a little bit mysterious, the mature man likes to be enticed and if there is too much information the only thing that will be enticing to him is someone else's profile. Keep it to a reasonable length and give a few hooks, something for the mature man to bite onto, ask some questions for example. Let them know what you are looking for and be flirty and fun but not too eager. Eager is a turn off for the mature man as much as the mature women dating community.

We wish you the best of luck in your search, we have thousands of mature members waiting to meet you so if you haven't signed up to mature dating help then you can do it here, sign up now to find your perfect match!

The Mature Dating Team